sometimes i hate monogamy!.so restrictive it is..you know why society makes us like monogamy...why it gives it high value??..coz society knows, the moment you stop conforming...you will disrupt it...its for self-preservation....Maslow only gave us the needs of the individual, but man...helloo...society has the same needs...and our first need is of preservation and security.....how to do that?...make rules...then make the rules sacred...how to make rules sacred?...attach value to them..how to do that? ...make them a part of religion and culture...
but society does not tell us tell us to conform...it makes conformity a part of life by giving it value...and by creating fear ..because society is aware of the next needs...the need to belong, be accepted and loved...and you only get these goodies when you conform...
ok...i was talking about monogamy...dont you hate resisting temptation (some would raise eyebrows over the reference to the first need...and the ones that follow)...yaaaa..why do you have to be with one person the whole time...why not one person one time...another another time.......ok..someone maybe wanting me to stop writing......
fine i conform to you society!
but society does not tell us tell us to conform...it makes conformity a part of life by giving it value...and by creating fear ..because society is aware of the next needs...the need to belong, be accepted and loved...and you only get these goodies when you conform...
ok...i was talking about monogamy...dont you hate resisting temptation (some would raise eyebrows over the reference to the first need...and the ones that follow)...yaaaa..why do you have to be with one person the whole time...why not one person one time...another another time.......ok..someone maybe wanting me to stop writing......
fine i conform to you society!
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